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5y7m, 3y Sept 2024 update

 jackson adjusted really well to mya being at school and is actually more easy (we thought he'd be harder bc he's so emotional) but as one kid, no fights to deal with, and he actually really loves learning and is generally super happy and easygoing (as long as he gets food and sleep). this is the first we're really seeing HIM on his own so it's been lovely seeing his personality shine through. loves songs, dancing, dress-up, reading ALWAYS chatting or talking (mya was a much more quiet baby..) still randomly comes in to give me hugs and also loves to grab my hand to "nuggle" it (still doesn't say s's properly) first dentist visit - did REALLY well and stayed still. dentist said he was a 'model patient!' held the sucking straw by himself. around this time he also just turned really good at brushing his teeth at night, doesn't squirm or complain loves using scissors even if he doesn't quite get the hang of it yet (thankfully we have kiddi

5y6m, 2y11m Aug 2024 update

 mya started kindergarten! still doesnt say hi to people BUT plays with kids so instantly! met kai/parker for the first time and they actually started kinda playing together at the first meeting within like 20 mins or so. tiff/daniel visited as momo was back from hawaii and ALL the kids (caelen, cerie, denise, tristan, mya, jackson) were prob playing for like 90 mins without any fighting or crying from ANYONE -- though - mya and jackson did come down a lot and played by themselves / with kow fu (fishing). ultimately, i think they like their physical space because they were all playing in the small room and i'm sure it prob got hectic/crowded. it was so funny seeing denise/jackson talking and playing with each other!! jackson loves finding/playing with sticks when we're out loves bananas, oatmeal, hot dogs, soft soupy rice, noodles, chicken & duck skin tried bamboo, clams, and squid, and loves it self potty training. generally pretty good about pooping in the toilet. likes

5y4m, 2y8m

 jackson parent-teacher conference he's a sweetie! loves stories, playing with animals, and one girl named ella. open to using potty (even if he doesn't pee every time). 30m attention span to stories. listens and participates. sensitive if someone bothers him. eats everything on his plate with no complaints. comfortable with po po, kow fu and calvin & susanna! happily responds to them on his own without needing us there tells stories and knows how to give appropriate responses as if he knows what we're talking about (most of the time i think he does) tends to whine and complain non-verbally (i dont think mya's ever done that!) just rolls around and whines doesn't like being yelled at (well, who does) but then does this sly face with me when i tell him its ok to do things a certain way "im the mad queen!! wa ha ha!!" he's seriously the best at not only the motions but expressions bouncy runner not shy around adults, actually talks to them (was talka

5y5m, 2y9m

 mya first time where she sat down next to a kid on a play structure (a boy!) and smiled at him and actually was kinda talking to him new fav: asian vegetables loves running and frolicks by herself most times if it's a nice big open playground ok with eating white fish now! so CRAZY doesnt go in the room to jackson while he naps anymore and works on her activities on her own (bracelet making, foil art, sticker activity) hasnt got tired of the stories book (with silver pages) we found at the park loves to randomly tell me about cats "you know, cats don't need to go on walks. sometimes if they go outside, they need a stroller" talked to tyler UNPROMPTED in like one of his first interactions with her!! so good that's she's getting more comfortable with grownups though she really doesn't like being put on the spot and still doesn't say hi, bye, or thank you to people still super into her storybook after like 1-2 months now?!? jackson loves bananas, oatmeal

5y3m 2y7m

 jackson: responds "yes" (when we ask him qs) - so cute! no lisp or anything. just so confident-sounding doesn't like putting on jackets (this isn't new though, it's been since like.. a year ago at least lol but he's very vocal now) still in his mommy phase some nights he stays up til 9-9:15 and pretty much will just wait until i go to bed with him until he falls asleep. i'm still the only one he wants next to him until he falls asleep T_T carlo can't even help me! so funny when he sneaks out of bed.. he pretends to be a worm low on the floor, then slowly crawls still likes to line up toys and categorizes them. if he plays with something and there's a match, he runs off to find the match on his own without saying anything more into play after school than sitting still for dinner still loves mushrooms. loves sweet potatoes and can eat cherries by himself! picks shells/skin of pistachios loves to pretend to work at an ice cream shop and asks "wh